Body language signs, especially when flirting, is something that many of us have a problem understanding. There are body language flirting signs guys unconsciously give that you have to look out for. Have you ever been flirting with a man and think that he is into you, only to figure out he is actually not? Well, I have got some of the best options to read male body language signs when flirting, which can help you to know whether that nice guy is really into you or not. If you like the guy, you are going to notice little things about him. Here is how to interpret body language by checking out his posture. Seems fun? Sometimes these little things that you admire about him say more than you think. Look at the way he stand when he is near you and pick up on some simple body signs that is clearly showing that he is flirting with you. If he stands with his feet apart, as if trying hard to secure some kind of stance then he is clearly into you. Guys, no matter how much they try to play off being macho can still end up going all soft when they find themselves being caught up in a girl. He can switch from one foot to the next as he tries to find the right footing and can even try to lean against anything that he sees around him in an effort to get comfortable. If a guy does this near you, it means you have him weak.
Way he is talking to you
If he tries to maintain eye contact with you then that he is for sure flirting. Body language is not that hard to understand when the signs are this obvious and you understand how to interpret them. Guys can try to maintain eye contact just because they want to try and understand you to see if you are also into them. During conversation, he could gesticulate much and from time to time catches himself and stick his hands between his loop and his pockets to unconsciously pull attention to the pelvic area. For female it is all about primal instinct, when confronting a lady they like they are naturally fidgety. It is known as the body language of attraction, which is just the way how feelings are unknowingly depicted on the outside.
An if you 2 are having a conversation, but he is constantly looking at his phone, or looking somewhere else, that is certainly not a sign of he's a good listener, and it is most likely a sign that he isn't very interested.
how he is checking you out
If a man admires you as opposed to leer at you then he likes you. But how do you know what his body language is telling by looking at his hands? Understanding body language involves observing everything about a guy from head to toe. If he looks at you in a shy way but at the same time the eyes are saying he like what he sees then he is into you. He can get defensive if his friends try to check you out too, even if he did not come out and say he likes you, believe that he does.
You might want to get some great ideas on how to flirt if you think he is checking you out based on his body language. Flirting sends the message that the feeling is mutual.
Watch his hands
Does he gesticulate (talk with his hands as if he wear trying to sign you) a lot and unable to find even a temporary place for his hands? If that answer is yes then he surely thinks you take his breath away. Guys have a tendency to pull their hands in their pocket, sometimes pull one out demonstrate something by waving or pointing, pushing it back in the pocket, they just do not stop with the hands. But what does a guy’s hand have to do with reading the body language of men? The icing on the cake is just holding you. If man holds your hands, whether he is just having a conversation with you or walking you home, holding onto you is a way of saying he likes you. If he does this without being or seeming possessive then your heart is definitely in the right place.
How he treats you independent of the presence of another person
Now this does not literally mean that man is going to go on wild goose chase with you, but merely make the extra effort to make you happy or comfortable. Now what matters about man body language at this point is not the action, but rather the reaction. If he reacts to our distress in a helpful manner than being or sounding annoyed or exasperated then he definitely likes you. How he treats you will help you learn how to understand body language.
How important is reading body language for understanding whether or not a guy is flirting with you?
There're many ways to study a man’s body language, meaning that, you do not have to be an expert to pick up on the signs of flirting. Reading body language can lead to a better understanding of the guy you are dealing with as different men react differently when posed with different scenarios. If you take the time to read in between the lines, then it will help you to better understand his body language. Meanings and interpretation of what he is saying won’t get mixed up with what his body is telling you. So instead of asking “is he flirting with me?” you will know what his body language is trying to tell you. It just goes to say that body language sometimes is more important than the spoken words.
The idea that most people are still motivated by the appearance, at least in the initial stages of a courtship, may seem disheartening to some of you, but now you know about the flirting body language signals, you have a clue as to how to make yourself more attractive in the eyes of the opposite sex.