Your marital life has become boring and that’s the thing you were most afraid of before marriage.
Follow these eight steps to put the excitement back in to your marriage.
Communicate: Avoid always talking about responsibilities and boring chores and find time to remember the love and intimacy you used to have.
Ignore misconceptions about marriage: Avoid the negatives you hear about marriage and don’t fall into a routine with your partner.
Different needs: Express your needs and tell one another what makes you happy and satisfied in order to avoid misunderstandings.
Tell each other your problems: Discuss your problems without blaming one another.
Be realistic: How do you see your marital life? Do you have high expectations and always get disappointed? You have to face the truth and modify your expectations sometimes.
Respect privacy: It’s important that both of you have some private space to do things for yourself. You both need to have your own interests and accomplishments. This will give you things to talk about.
Spend some time alone: Find some time to spend alone together away from children, family and friends. Do something you both enjoy. Of course you won’t find such free time everyday but try to do it as much as possible.
Be spontaneous: Planning can ruin the fun in your life so avoid planning everything and act according to your feelings and desires.