Can you safely survive the separation! Let's see 🙂
In the life of almost any of us are parting with a loved one. Someone is going through it easily, but someone regards as a tragedy.
Woman is important to understand that separation - it is a fait accompli, we can not fix anything.
Why spend your inner energy to painful thinking that you will not return. Is not it better to direct this energy to self-improvement, finding a new love last? In theory, it is, of course, everything is simple, but in life much more difficult.
It must be done so that a minute of free time the brain is not able to devote sad memories. Pool, dance school, gym, sewing classes - something out of this, but rather all at once, and turned his attention will not get bored. The main rule - exhausting day your body so that on the small stuff such as tears of frustration was not strong enough. No weekend at home! On nature, friends, parents - wherever you go, just do not stay in their home in the style of "lonely and useless."
Do not forget about spring cleaning. The objectives are twofold: to distract and throw away all the things that make mention of a former lover. Clean space will feel on the verge of new developments.
Have a favorite occupation? That'S Great! Now she is such rasprekrasnoy can pay a little more time than ever before. And bosses celebrate, and professional self-improvement, slightly rusted, regains its development. The main thing is not to overdo it with careerism. If the work is not satisfactory, you should consider changing it and pick up something for everyone. Such a fundamental change will expand the circle of new friends, raise self-esteem and distract from the personal troubles.
Find pluses in his bachelor life
Previously, she could not go to a nightclub with friends, did not allow himself to flirt with other men? And now - please, as you want! Such advantages can find a lot!
No need to get hung up on finding a new love. She herself there at one time.
Well, the most drastic option to recover from the breakup - to get a job, at least once a week, in a hospice or hospital oncology department, as cynical as it may sound. May be enough even one working day. In places where a lot of people are doomed, reassessment of values occurs instantly. Look into the eyes of death, experiencing excruciating physical pain - grief. A separation from loved - so unpleasant! You just have to go through it.
Even the most dismal pessimist may be an optimist in all, including separation, see the pros. It is a question of work on oneself. After all, live and build relationships, being an optimist, is much easier. Why not take it on myself arms?
Work on a time and help to recover even after the worst of separation.